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Attachment Style Assessment

Discover your relationship attachment style and how it influences your emotional connections.

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Attachment Style Quiz

Determine your attachment style with this short quiz.

Attachment Style Quiz

Attachment Style Quiz

I find it relatively easy to get close to others and am comfortable sharing personal information.
I often worry that my partner will not love or accept me completely.
I prefer to keep some emotional distance in my relationships to avoid getting hurt.
I feel comfortable depending on my partner and having my partner depend on me.
I often feel that I don't deserve the love and affection my partner gives me.
I get uncomfortable when my partner wants to spend a lot of time together.
I worry about being alone and feel incomplete without a partner.
I prefer not to rely on others or have others rely on me emotionally.
I find it difficult to fully trust my partner's intentions.
I am comfortable expressing my needs and feelings in a relationship.
I often worry that my partner will leave me for someone else.
I enjoy and prioritize my independence, even in a committed relationship.

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About Attachment Style Assessment

Understanding how we relate to others emotionally—especially in romantic and close relationships—can unlock powerful insights into our behavior, communication, and emotional needs. The Attachment Style Assessment is a self-reflective tool designed to help users identify their primary attachment style: secure, anxious, avoidant, or fearful-avoidant (disorganized).

Rooted in decades of psychological research, attachment theory explains how early interactions with caregivers shape the way we form and maintain relationships in adulthood. This tool offers value to individuals in romantic partnerships, those entering new relationships, or anyone on a journey of self-discovery and emotional wellness.

For example, someone in a new relationship might notice patterns like clinginess or emotional distancing but not understand why. This tool helps them name those patterns, such as an “anxious” or “avoidant” attachment style. For couples, understanding each other's attachment style can improve empathy and communication. Even therapists and coaches may use this tool as a quick introductory measure with clients.

By answering 12 statements honestly—like “I worry about being alone” or “I enjoy and prioritize my independence”—users gain insights into their emotional preferences and triggers. The results can be a stepping stone to better relationships, personal growth, and emotional security.

Whether you’re navigating dating, committed partnerships, or healing from past relationships, the Attachment Style Assessment provides practical understanding that can lead to healthier emotional habits and deeper intimacy.

FAQs for Attachment Style Assessment

What are the four attachment styles?

They include Secure, Anxious (Preoccupied), Avoidant (Dismissive), and Fearful-Avoidant (Disorganized).

Is this tool scientifically backed?

Yes, it is based on established psychological theories developed by John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth, and later expanded by researchers like Bartholomew and Shaver.

Can my attachment style change over time?

Yes, with self-awareness, therapy, and healthy relationships, people can shift toward a more secure attachment style.

Is this assessment suitable for couples?

Absolutely. It can help couples understand each other better and navigate emotional needs more compassionately.

Will I get tips based on my result?

Yes, each result comes with tailored insights and suggestions for growth and emotional connection.

Is this assessment confidential?

Yes, responses are private and not stored. The tool is meant for personal insight, not diagnosis.

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